Wednesday, June 18, 2014

The Psychology of Bolitas: When Having Two Balls is Not Enough (life coach, counselor, psychotherapist, clinical psychologist, ostheopath, quezon city, manila, philppines


The Pychology of Bolitas:  
When Having Two Balls is Not Enough
By Randy Dellosa


As a psychiatrist who deals with sex-related problems, I meet more and more wives in the counselling room who complain about their husband’s penis. No, it’s not about size that they complain about. These wives are annoyed that their husbands have studded the stem of their penis with tiny solid balls- the so-called “bolitas.” For them, the presence of bolitas is a sign that their husbands are playing around.


The surgical procedure for inserting bolitas is a form of body modification known as “genital beading” or "pearling."  Tiny balls made of plastic, metal, glass, wood, fiberglass, or stone are surgically implanted underneath the penile skin to create a “bumpy” or nodule-infested penis. Steel ball-bearings make for good bolitas, but thanks to Pinoy resourcefulness (and holiness), even rosary beads are used. The bolitas create friction against the vaginal canal during sexual intercourse, and it is this friction which is believed to drive women into a delirious state of sexual ecstasy. 


Historically, ancient Pinoy islanders were known to wear embedded ornaments on their penis. Magellan’s chronicler Antonio Pigafetta noted that "... both young and old males pierce their penises with a gold or tin rod the size of a goose quill, its ends shaped like the head of a nail." (Wikipedia) 

Before the bolitas became popular, Pinoy males used what is known as "pilik-mata ng kambing" as a vaginal tickler. The goat’s eyelids (with the eyelashes still attached) would be worn like a band around the penis during sexual intercourse thereby tickling the woman’s private parts. 


Among Pinoys, it is our seafarers who are notorious for having bolitas. Pinoys however are not the only guys who wear bolitas. Thais, for instance, call their little penile balls “fang muk.” Koreans call them “chagan balls.” Japanese call them “tancho balls. And as for American men, they call the bolitas by cute nicknames such as “penis marbles” and “love pearls.” 

The psychological reasons for Pinoy men to stud their penis with bolitas are many: 

  • Pinoy men who feel insecure about their penile length compensate by using their bolitas-laden penis to make their partner sexually happy. 
  • Having bolitas makes Pinoy seamen popular among prostitutes. 
  • Surrounding the penis with many bolitas fattens up a thin penis. 
  • Having bolitas builds a sense of pakikisama with other Pinoy men who have a nodule-filled penis. 


The bottom line is that the bolitas serves as a sexual confidence-builder and ego-booster. Having bolitas however is not always free of complications: 

  • Some men experience penile pain which worsens when the penis elongates during an erection. 
  • Some men feel embarrassed during medical examinations or in going naked in public shower rooms. 
  • For men with bolitas who develop erectile dysfunction, sterility, or cancer, they blame it on their bolitas. 
  • Wives feel angry and disrespected since they associate their husband’s bolitas with infidelity and sexual promiscuity. 
  • Some men worry that their wives will become sex addicts from the intense pleasure they derive from the bolitas, making them seek sexual encounters with other men. 
  • Lastly, some men complain of sexual fatigue since they claim that their sexual partners want to have sex with them non-stop, all the time. 


Whatever guys say, believe, or experience about bolitas, the last word should come from the women who experience it. Their reviews? 

  • Some women feel no difference between a normal penis and a penis studded with bolitas. 
  • While some women feel no difference, they do notice the improvement in their partner’s self-confidence and sexual vigor after their bolitas surgery. 
  • Many women hate their husband’s bolitas because it causes painful sex, vaginal wounds, bleeding, and infection. 
  • Some women love it. 


For many women, whether they experience pleasure from the bolitas or not, the issue of greater concern is their husbands' infidelity, since they know pretty well that their husbands' bolitas were intended to pleasure not only them, but other women as well.


107 comments:

  1. How about penis enlarger Dr Randy, can you write a blog about it?

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    1. Saan pwede magpalagay nang bulitas nga safe dito sa baclaran sa manila?

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  2. nice article. but 90% of women love men who have penile inserts. -samahang may bolitas at humps (smbh)

    samahangmaybolitas@gmail.com
    bolitaspinoy@gmail.com

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    1. saan pede magpalagay yung legal at safe. professional doctor

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    2. San pwedi safe magpalagay NG boletas at how much

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    3. San po may Alam kau naglalagay NG boletas imus cavite magkano magpalagay

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    4. San po sa Imus naglalagay bolitas

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    5. Saan po sa qc may safe na naglalagay ng bolitas at magkano?

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  3. tanong ko lang..masarap ba talaga sa babae ang may bolitas?

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  4. meron ba kayong alam na doctor or someone na pwede maglagay ng bolitas dito sa cebu?

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  6. you've mentioned about infection, what kind of infection exactly?

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  7. Saan po b navpapalagay ng bolitas? Pangasinan area

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  8. san clinic sa manila nag pwede magpalagay ng bolitas? yung professional/doctor at safe?

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  9. Saang clinic po sa Muntinlupa area may naglalagay ng bolitas at safe po

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  10. san clinic po yung safe magpalagay ng bolitas? kindly response. thanks

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  11. Mag know nman any hlaga Kung Mag plagay bk do nmin k y Mira long b?

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  12. sa manila area myron b clinic?anu name ng clinic?tnx

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  14. Dito sa cebu saan pwede magpalagay ng bolitas ung safe??

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  15. Saan po ba pwde mag palagay ng hamz sa titi po

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  16. pm me malaki na sa akin 8 inches 2 amd half inches wide. pm me.kung paano

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  17. Tanung ko lg po.. If ung boy my bolitas then nkipagintercourse sa girl, nd po ba maiinfection o magsugat ung ari ng babae? Kng mangyari man un anu po pwede gawin. Thank you po

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  18. Tanung ko lg po.. If ung boy my bolitas then nkipagintercourse sa girl, nd po ba maiinfection o magsugat ung ari ng babae? Kng mangyari man un anu po pwede gawin. Thank you po

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  19. for my experience hnd naman nkakasugat kz nga nasa loob nman yan ng balat namin. for the girls feeling mas enjoy/intense cla.

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    1. Boss san po pwd mgpalagay yong safety po thks

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    2. Yong partner ko kasi may bolitas kaya masakit at pagkatapos may konting dugo tapos mahapdi.. Anu ba dapat gawin?

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  20. Magkano po magpalagay ng bolitas??kung apat po ipapalagay ko magkano po iyon??safety po ba magpalagay ng bolitas??

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  21. Magpapalagay po ako bulitas saan po pwede na clinic at magkano

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  22. may possible po ba lumipat yun place ng bolitas gamit ang pagmassage nito thanks

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  23. Pwd mag pa txt sa maglalagay nang bolitas?txt me 09333186654

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  24. Masarap bah to may bolitas sa titi,hindi pa ako naka pag try ng my bolitas

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  25. Mag kano po ba magpalagay ng hams?

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  26. meron po bang naglalagay ng bolitas sa manila??
    pag meron txt nyo lng po ako
    #09282561871

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  27. his sir randy do you do po ng pagtatangal ng bolitas salamat po

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  28. Manila area. . Palagay Sana ako Ng bulitas

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  29. Paano po ang paraan ng pagtanggal ng bolitas? TIA.

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  30. Sa kin 16 yrs na ,wla nman side effect,sa pasay rtd may clinic dyi dyn ying naggagamot ng mga std desease,usually nurse lng nagkakabit nyan babae,per piece dti ang byad,masakit yan pag bumuka ng dpa maggilom tpos ginamit sa babae,back to zero,hiwain ulit yan then ipapasok uli tpos tahi,napuna ko lng sa 16 yrs ko ginagamit,mskit sya pag erect nadiin sa ari mu,,pero sa babae,swabe nman bstaalam mu gamitin,syempre alam mu nman ang target mu na patamaan nyan db,

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    1. Pwede niyo po ba Maibigay Yung contact number NG clinic? If you don't mind... Thanks

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    2. San sa rotonda boss or name ng clinic?

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  31. San po pwd magpalagay. Pasig area sang clinic po

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  32. please text 09176223398 magpapalagay po

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  33. Magpapalagay po ng bolitas sta rosa laguna area my no# 09105816481

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  34. I will too.. Please advise..

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  35. Please contact me by WhatsApp 057 220 0640

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  36. Saan po location nyo po,my cell # po kau

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  37. Magpapalagay aq NG bolitas sta Cruz manila po aq,#09432910265

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  38. Baka may alam kayong clinic nag tatangal ng boletas sa ari.

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  39. saan po ba pweding mag palagay ng bulitas laguna area yong safe

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  40. San loc po b pwde mgpalagay ng bulitas.. Taguig po ako

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  41. San pwede palagay nang bulitas

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  42. Text nyu nlang s number q 09496939729

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  43. Active ang facebook group ng Samahang May Bolitas at Humps. Pwedeng pa assist at paturo ng paraan ng paglalagay, saan at kanino.

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/SamahangMayBolitasAtHumps

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  44. Gusto ko magpalagay ng bolitas saan po location ng clinic

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  45. Gusto kupong magpalagay ng bolitas .saan po location na malapit pampanga pa po ako

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  46. Gusto kopo sanang magpalagay ng bolitas saan location po kaya malapit pampanga pa po ako

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  47. Gosto ko Sana magpalagay bolitas saan po location po at poponta ako dto ako bacoor cavite city

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  48. pano po ipatagal ung bulitas.San po pwede ipatanggal.

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  49. San po shop nyo papalagay ako Ng bbolita

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  50. San po sa qc puwde palagay ng bolitas

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  51. Saan po puedi magpakabit bolitas at magkano budget sa 3-4 na ikakabit

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  52. message me po kong saang Clinic pwede magpalagay ng bolitas at Magkano po?

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  53. Saan po n lugar ang pwede mag kabit nang bolitas

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  54. Mga sir hwag na kayo magpalagay mg humps o bolitas ksi masisisi po kayo kasi ung akin sa saudi ko pa pinalagay ng humps almost 18 yrs na ito gusto kuna ipatanggal kasi may side effects kasi sa katagalan nnipist ung balat ng ari at magkkasugat at magkakanana pa kaya problema ko kung saan ko pattangal ko may hospital napagtanongan ko 70k singil sakin para matanggal ksi daw ung humps dumikit na sa balat ko sa loon kaya laking pagsisisi ko

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  55. San po b may nag lalagay Ng bolotas

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