justine tajonera interviewed me for her upcoming article in smart parenting. topic: hypoactive sexual desire disorder. this is a condition which many clients actually consult me about.
"hypoactive desire" may mean two things: either the client is lacking in sexual urges or, the client is averse or phobic to sexual activity.
having a lack of sexual desire is not necessarily abnormal. some people are more sexual than others and in fact, i've met people who are totally asexual, that is, not having even a wee bit trace of libido. when a couple is both hyposexual, then hyposexuality is not a problem. it only becomes problematic if the couple experiences a mismatch in their levels of sexual urges. with this mismatch, you can be sure that marital conflict abounds..
i don't want this to be a spoiler, so this is as much as i'll write. if you're interested in more information about hyposexuality, wait for justine's article in smart parenting... soon to come out!