The Emotional Roller Coaster Ride
Called Bipolar Disorder
by Randy Dellosa
Two weeks prior to her fatal leap from the 28th floor of her
residential building, socialite-model Helena Belmonte tweeted the message,
“Slash my wrists and hope to die!”
Helena
Belmonte
Most people harbor the
belief that those who are truly suicidal do not go around announcing their plans
to commit suicide. Unfortunately, that belief is a mistaken belief.
Helena cried for help
The truth is that many suicidal people can actually be saved
because they call out for help by giving hints of their suicidal intention.
For Helena, it just wasn’t a subtle hint she gave. She posted a direct
message to her thousands of followers on Twitter, warning them all of the
possibility of killing herself. Sadly, the post was generally unheeded by
most of her followers, with 8 people even favoriting the tweet and 10 people
retweeting it.
How alcohol didn’t help
A few hours before her tragic fall, she was reported to be partying
with too much to drink. Getting drunk was probably what sealed her fate.
First of all, alcohol removed her inhibitions and made her carry out the
impulse to jump off the building.
Secondly, alcohol is a brain depressant
and it may have intensified her depression and death wish.
Thirdly,
alcohol doesn’t mix well with psychiatric medications. The alcohol Helena drank
would have interacted badly with any psychiatric medication in her system,
possibly worsening her mental confusion and emotional instability.
Whatever her problems were, the only thing that could have saved
the impulsively unpredictable and suicidal Helena at that time was psychiatric
confinement and intensive monitoring until she regained mental calmness and
emotional composure.
Helena’s illness
So what is this bipolar disorder which Helena was reported to have?
Mel Gibson
Bipolar disorder is a psychiatric condition which
involves extreme mood swings. “Bipolar” means “having two poles” which refer to
mania and depression. Hence, bipolar disorder is also known as
“manic-depressive” disorder. People who suffer from bipolar disorder
swing alternately from having long bouts of depression to having long bouts of
mania.
The manic stage
People with mania act like they are on shabu or some
other type of upper. Mania is characterized by:
- An extremely happy or angry mood
- Having grand and unrealistic ideas
- Extreme talkativity
- Hyperactive thinking
- Hyperactive behaviour
- Impulsive behaviours such as overspending or giving away
things
- Shortened sleep
Ben
Stiller
The depressive stage
Depression, on the other hand, is characterized by:
- Lingering feelings of sadness or irritability
- Loss of motivation, initiative, and zest for living
- Low energy level
- A pessimistic mindset full of worries, fears and concerns
- Losing appetite or over-eating
- Insomnia or over-sleeping
- Negative self-image and low self-confidence
- Poor concentration and memory
- Self-harm or suicidal thoughts and behaviors
Cause and treatments
Bipolar disorder is caused by neuro-chemical
imbalances in the brain. Thankfully, bipolar disorder is a very treatable
condition. The essential treatment for bipolar disorder consists of
mood-stabilizing medication.
Catherine
Zeta-Jones
Improvements
In my clinical practice, most people with bipolar
disorder experience significant improvement within 2 to 3 weeks of taking the
right medications at the right dosage.
Psychotherapy is also necessary
because emotional problems often trigger the bipolar disorder.
Wellness
therapies like acupuncture, cranio-sacral therapy, massage, and exercise are
all beneficial.
Omega-3 fish oil and high-potency vitamin B complex are helpful
supplements to take.
The disorder as an excuse?
In the Philippines, a number of celebrities are
reported to have bipolar disorder. It seems however that some of them are
using the disorder as a convenient excuse (or license) for their wayward
attitudes and behaviors.
While some Filipinos consider it shameful to have the
disorder, others actually consider bipolar disorder as a status symbol since
many prominent people in the U.S. have it.
Jean
Claude Van Damme
Living a normal life with the disorder
As a psychiatrist, I tell people that having bipolar
disorder shouldn’t be an impediment to living a normal life. Jim Carey,
Ben Stiller, Mel Gibson, Jean Claude Van Damme, and Catherine Zeta-Jones have
all lived highly productive and successful lives despite being
manic-depressive.
People with bipolar disorder can certainly recover and
become emotionally stable. In fact, with proper treatment, no one might even
notice or suspect that they have the condition.
Jim Carey