gladys reyes of abscbn's umagang kay ganda posed to me the question, "tama bang mangatwiran sa nakakatanda? the answer to the question is "it depends."
here are some questions to consider:
- do you have sound basis for reasoning out?
- is it the right time or situation to do it?
- is the person you're reasoning out to in a receptive mood?
- do you need to cool down first before presenting your stand in a calm and objective manner?
- are you prepared to accept the possibility that the other person may reject what you have to say?
- do you, in the first place, even need to reason out or can you just let the issue go?
